Scared2Share: HELP!!

Monday, August 20, 2007

Just taking the time to say ahhhh!!!. Everyone around me is having a melt down at the same time. Trying to be there for everyone is hard. HELP!!!

Inspector Monkfish said...: Wow, hi Scared2Share.

I was just looking at a few random blog entries that I wrote last year and saw your name in the comments, thought I'd click it to see if you'd ever updated your blog anymore - hadn't thought to look in months... And how much of a coincidence is that, that I happened to look only two days after you wrote something!

I'll try to check back and keep up-to-date :)

When everyone else has a lot going on, one thing to remember is that talking to them about what's on your mind can help them to relax.
Some people seem to go through the "Eugh, they've got so much going on, I don't want to add to it!" thought process, but to be honest, I normally love to hear other peoples' problems at those times, as it means I can forget about my own :)
After all, they do say a change is as good as a rest :)

As for my wife and I, we tried to make things work last year (which included going to counselling), before I eventually realised I couldn't stay where I was. Moved out on 1st December, initially just to get an idea for where I wanted to be.
Made the decision in March that actually, I feel better on my own, and have now started making a move towards divorce or something.

Blimey, and that may in fact be the shortest summary I've ever given of so many months ;)

Take care, hope you're keeping well.

-IM; 5:10 AM